Have Therapy Questions? What To Ask Your Therapist Before You Begin Sessions

Many therapists offer a short consultation call to ensure they’re the best fit for clients, or they may be available by e-mail to connect about prospective clients’ inquiries. Knowing the right therapy questions to ask can help you gather important information and make an informed decision. Read on below for some ideas.
Questions About Therapy Approach, Modality, and Style
What modalities does your therapist use in their work? If you’re looking to be treated through a specific method, what experience or training does your therapist have with that therapeutic method? Is their general therapy approach to their work structured or eclectic? Therapeutic style can make a difference to whether the partnership feels like a fit so don’t be shy to explore it.
Questions Concerning Therapist’s Experience
How long has the therapist been in practice? Where have they trained? What is their professional designation and if applicable, which college are they regulated by? What populations do they typically serve? Do they have experience working with the concerns you’re bringing in? How might they approach the material you’re looking to explore in therapy? These questions can help you to build some initial trust with your therapist and explore potential treatment directions.
Questions Related to Therapy Format
Does the therapist work virtually (online or by telephone), in person, or do they offer a hybrid of both? How long are their sessions? Are they an independent practitioner or part of a group practice or clinic? Which neighbourhood, city, or province are they located? If they work virtually, what platform(s) do they use? If they work in person, is their office accessible to you? What forms of payment do they accept? These are all important practical pieces to be aware of.
Questions Around Therapist Availability
Can the therapist offer you a regular weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly appointment? How far in advance do they book? If you would like a set time for your regular session, is that available? Can they accommodate bookings on short notice? Are their hours and availability workable with your schedule? How many sessions per week or per month can you reasonably commit to? How far in advance would your therapist need notice to reschedule? Is there a waitlist? Both your and your therapist’s time are a consideration for moving forward with the collaboration.
Questions Regarding Therapist’s Fees, Session Cancellation, and No-Show Policy
What is the therapist’s fee? Do they have sliding scale options available if needed? Do they offer direct billing to insurance? Do they provide receipts? When can you expect your therapist to increase their rate? What is their cancellation policy? Do they charge a fee for late cancellations? What fee do they charge if you cancel late or no show to your session? Every therapist has different boundaries, needs, and limits surrounding the financial frame of their practice, therefore having this information can prepare you for what to expect and allow you to explore what would be sustainable financially for you.
Having the necessary information can help you to make an informed decision about your treatment and care. Choose which therapy questions feel most relevant to you when first speaking with your therapist, notice how you feel after your consult, and trust that by reaching out for a consultation, you’re already taking a significant step towards finding the right support.
Therapy Questions FAQs
What if my needs for therapy change?
Peoples’ need in therapy often do change, be they experiential (such as interest in exploring a different type of therapy), financial (there’s been a change in your financial situation or capacity), or structural (issues related to relocation, scheduling, and availability). Talk to your therapist to see if accommodations can be made or found for you, either within their practice, or through re-referral to other trusted practitioners or service providers.
Can I ask for a new referral after my consultation?
Rest assured that you are not being rude by asking for a new referral following your initial consultation if it’s not feeling like a fit. As therapists, we want you to find the right clinician for your care, and it may just be that we would know of a possible fit for you or could find you some alternate referral options within our professional network.
Why is it important to ask therapy questions before starting sessions?
Asking therapy questions helps you determine if a therapist is the right fit, understand their approach, and clarify practical details like availability and fees.
What should I ask about a therapist’s approach and style?
You can ask about their therapeutic modalities, whether their approach is structured or eclectic, and how they typically work with clients to ensure their style aligns with your needs.
How can I check a therapist’s experience and qualifications?
Ask about their years of practice, training background, professional designation, and whether they have experience with your specific concerns.
How do I know if a therapist is the right fit for me?
A consultation can help you assess how comfortable you feel with the therapist, whether their approach resonates with you, and if their availability and policies align with your needs.
Can I change therapists if I don’t feel comfortable?
Yes, therapy is a personal experience, and if you feel a therapist isn’t the right fit, you can explore other options to find someone better suited to your needs.
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